To be in pain is a step towards understanding its meaning. To feel pain is your ability to proceed towards wholeness. There are millions of people who never feel...they let their ability to feel emotions lie in the deepest crevice of their mind. They say, " Just let it be. There is no need to pay attention to pain and hurt; just stay happy." Is it possible to not pay attention to a wound that is within you, giving out pus and paining with grief? Its important to understand that till we allow this hurting emotion to release we can't become whole.
I tell people don't fear to face ones inabilities and inadequacies. You may feel broken and hurt inside, burnt and charred as people have trampled over you, numb and sad within, but don't hide these emotions. Let them arise and understand the reason why you have held on to them. Don't we put medicine on a hurt immediately so that it heals, then why are we hesitant to heal our emotional wounds? It's the fear that if I expose myself to others emotionally they will hurt me so let me hide them away. Let me forget that I ever was abused, neglected, rejected or betrayed.
Lets not look at being broken . With thunder and lightening piercing through clouds, they break to give rain. When the earth breaks exposing its veins, the soil sets itself and green fields grow. When the wheat barn breaks it yields seeds and broken seeds give life to new plants. Its time each one of us understood that the secret to being whole and complete begins with being able to face our inner most hurt and healing it from within.
I tell people don't fear to face ones inabilities and inadequacies. You may feel broken and hurt inside, burnt and charred as people have trampled over you, numb and sad within, but don't hide these emotions. Let them arise and understand the reason why you have held on to them. Don't we put medicine on a hurt immediately so that it heals, then why are we hesitant to heal our emotional wounds? It's the fear that if I expose myself to others emotionally they will hurt me so let me hide them away. Let me forget that I ever was abused, neglected, rejected or betrayed.
Lets not look at being broken . With thunder and lightening piercing through clouds, they break to give rain. When the earth breaks exposing its veins, the soil sets itself and green fields grow. When the wheat barn breaks it yields seeds and broken seeds give life to new plants. Its time each one of us understood that the secret to being whole and complete begins with being able to face our inner most hurt and healing it from within.
To me; 'Pain' is a symptom of Learning. Learning something of eternal value.
ReplyDeleteWhenever we try to learn something; we are extending our capacities. This extension is a kind of stretching. Be it physical or emotional; stretching generates discomfort. This discomfort is the feeling of 'Pain'.
So, let us remember this : 'Pain' shows that the process of Learning is 'On'.
We come here to learn. Thus, experiencing pain should be a kind of confirmation that the syllabus that we created for this life is being carried out effectively.
When we have learnt; lesson taken in true sense; our psychie gets evolved. The pain would then subside.
That is true
ReplyDeleteMan has come in the bodily form to experience pain and emotions. How can he ever try to escape or run away from it. Every pain, every suffering is an opportunity for growth. The best way to overcome pain is to make it relative, by comparing it with those who have endured pain far beyond our imagination.
ReplyDeleteHow precise
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